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Divorce vs. Marriage

Being married with two kids a home with a two car garage, and a white picket fence used to be a big part of the "American dream." However, the divorce rate of 50%; highest recorded in American history, would lead you to believe that the new American dream is more like, ”I survived the first marriage, and I’m never doing it again, got the house and supervised visits with the psycho-ex, so the kids know their daddy!!” Maybe, that last part was a little extreme but you know what I’m talking about almost everywhere you look a couple is getting married and two couples are getting divorced. So, it begs the question, which is best marriage or divorce?


The high rate of divorce in the United States is especially alarming because of the high numbers of Christian faith believers who also getting divorced. According to the Barna report, those of the moral right that vehemently proclaim marriage as a sacred entity, that should be between a man and a woman only; are leading the charge among the faiths that are getting divorced. Financial difficulties and infidelity with the opposite and in some cases same sex partners are the chief reasons reported for getting the divorce. This fact brings pause to some who ask the question, “What’s the big deal with gays and lesbians getting the right to be married… in time they’ll only get divorced?”
After being divorced for the three years I realized the good that came from my first marriage but, I also recognized that the divorce had helped develop a sense of urgency with regard to my personal development. To be honest, without being divorced I don't believe I was ever going to be able to obtain a college education while I was married. My duties as a provider often prevented me from concentrating on myself because I had to be the bread winner and while college would eventually lead to a better income there wasn't enough support available to me financially or otherwise. In fact, my life didn’t belong to me anymore and I felt trapped to stay in a marriage that wasn’t going anywhere because of my faith. I knew deep down inside that if I didn’t get out fast, things would only worsen for my family down the road.

As a single man again, I was free and focused on ways to make myself better. And as a result I was able to renew my focus and begin to live out my dream of becoming a college graduate and a Broadcast Journalist. However, there are still many redeeming attributes to being married and there are statistics that show that many marriages are working, as 50% of marriages in America are solid and only end with “death doing us part”.

Having been married for over 8 years, I can say that being married was at times the best time in my young life. I was definitely healthier, more financially secure and happier than I ever imagined as a married man than I ever was being single. Statistics show that married men live much longer fruitful lives than single men and are among the wealthiest in America. I was also more emotionally secure because I didn’t have to doubt whether or not a woman’s intentions were legitimate because I had a committed partner in a wife.

To me it is now clear that whether you choose marriage or divorce the statistics in America are split between the two and there is still room for debate on which is best. Only you and your mate can decide, so choose wisely!

America will be more fit in 2009 thanks to President-Elect Obama

_{Alex Brandon / AP}

DALLAS- As the 2009 New Year continues its dawning, America is continuing a of journey towards change that began in earnest on November 4th, 2008 with the historic landslide electoral college election of Barack Hussein Obama. The newly elected president and athletic father of two will provide a daily reminder to all of us Americans that "active participation" involves getting up from the desk or couch and actually breaking a sweat. "We're a very sports-loving country and it would be unusual if our president in one way or another was not sports connected," said Stephen Hess, a presidential scholar who served in the Eisenhower and Nixon administrations. (Espn.com) With a poor economy and bleak outlook overall domestically many Americans will surely resolve this year to spend less and find ways to reduce our carbon footprint while also shedding some unwanted pounds.


As one should expect of the man who will soon be the leader of the free world, president-elect Obama has a rigorous daily schedule that must include time for his workout or he will not be the cool character that we see behind the microphone during his press conferences. For at least 48 days in a row during and after the campaign, his day has included at least 90 minutes in the gym. An hour and a half, may seem like only a short period of time or an eternity depending on your physical fitness level but, the reward of maintaining a daily work routine is something utterly vital to the success of the youngest elected president of our time.

_{Lawerence Jackson / AP}

His commitment to staying in shape is a testament to his ability to manage stress and maintain a clear mind. As a veteran of the armed forces, I have to respect a man that has the intestinal fortitude that it takes to commit to a daily regime that includes being physically fit. Since my days in the military, working out and staying in shape has always been a way to escape for me as well. It has also assisted with me working through life challenges and also helps me assess the opportunities that lay ahead. I was astonished to find out that president-elect Obama also uses his work out time to reflect and work out the some of his most perplexing life challenges.

Obama, who favors a post-workout snack of a protein bar and organic iced tea, has already disclosed some of his own plans for his new home. He wants to build a full basketball court where he can hold games on the White House grounds, and to maintain his usual routine of exercising at least six days a week.

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It's a schedule he started as a 22-year-old student at Columbia University in New York, and it immediately transformed him. In his 1995 autobiography, "Dreams From My Father," Obama said he was a casual drug user and an underachiever until he decided to start running three miles each day. He stopped staying out late, fasted on Sundays and became a voracious reader, spending most of his time alone in his apartment reading classic literature and philosophical texts.

Physical fitness yielded mental fitness, Obama decided, and the two concepts have been married in his mind ever since. (Washingtonpost.com) Let's go America and get in shape for the New Year and beyond!!